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 Getting divorce in USA

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Posted on 09-04-20 12:46 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Hello sathiharu , I need suggestions and information on following issue.

Mero yaha USA ma nai 2 barsa aagai bhihe bhayeko ho saga. yahele aayera KT tirako le chutine kura gareko cha ra hami 2 jana aalag basdai aayeko 8 month jati bhayo. Kt tira bata divorce garne bhaneko ho tara yahele uniharu khei pani step chaldainan ani malai nepal ma muddha halne barema dhamki dinchan. aaba yesto aabasta ma yaha USA ma aafaile divorce process aagadi badauda ke malai nepal ma yesle aasar garla ta . I need good suggestion plz...

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@damar, thank you

 
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@tps2gc, thank you
 
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@tps2gc, yaha ma aafale divorce file garda, KT le yesle divorce file gareko first ma ho bhanera malai nepal ma aaftaro ta pardiana. ma yaha USA ma student ho, ma saga khei chaina gadi bayak.
 
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How long do you have to separate before filing for divorce ?
 
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ये student नै हो भने त चाउरे हुनु हुदा रैछ, नेपालमा भन्दा येतै file गरेको राम्रो । नेपालमा चै लफडामा केटिले जति चाह्यो लयाग ल्यांग गर्न सक्छ , यता तेस्तो हुन्न । pretty straight forward ।

तर एउटा कुरा याद राख्नुस , discuss भएको बेला मान्छे तात्छ, अनि नेपाल को जस्तो काट्छु, कुट्छु, मार्छु एस्तो कुरा गर्छ, भुलेर नि एस्तो कुरा तपाई नगर्नु होला, येदि उसले गर्छे भने video लिएर राख्नु होला , छिसिक्क हात हलाहल, वा गाली धम्कि मात्र गरेको प्रमाण भेटियो भने domestic violence आकर्सित हुन्छ अनि तपाई को खेल खत्तम । अम्रिकामा मान्छे स्वतन्त्र छ, कसैको हानी नोक्सानी नगरी तपाई आफ्नो जीवन यापन गर्न सक्नु हुन्छ । अनि अर्को रमाइलो कुरा , तपाई स्टुडेन्ट हुनु हुदो रैछ , मनिलिम तपाई कि स्वास्नी राम्रो कमाउने हुनुहुन्छ भने तपाई वहाको कमाई दाबी गर्न सक्नु हुन्छ ।

divorce जता भए नि एक चोटी भए पुग्छ, येदि दुवै ले उतै divorce file गर्नु भनेको छ भने तपाई लाई उतै जानु भन्छ , होइन एक जना ले मात्र उता निबेदन दिएको अनि अर्को उता जान नचाहने हो भने २ जान जुन देश मा उपस्तित हुनुहुन्छ तेही देशको कानुन आकर्षित हुन्छ , no matter तपाई जुन देश को नागरिक भए पनि ।

२ कारण ले तपाई लाई यहाँ गारो पर्न सक्छ

१) तपाई संग टन्न पैसा छ, तपाई को wife गोल्ड digger हो भन्ने तपाई लाई थाहा भए पनि तपाई केहि गर्न सक्नु हुन्न। तपाई को सम्पति वहा लाई दिनै पर्छ। ( सम्पतिको नौ मा थोत्रे गाडी मात्र रैछ, तपाई लाई favor गर्यो )

२) तपैले डोमेस्टिक violence  गरेको सानो प्रमाण मात्र फेला पर्यो भने तपाई बोरा विस्तार बोकेर नेपाल जान तयार हुनुस। ( यो छ कि छैन मलाई थाहा भएन )

यी २ case बाहेक सबै तपाई को favor मा छ गो ahead ।

खुट्टा राम्रो छ भने हात्ती छाप लाए नि भयो , ralph lauren लाए नि भयो
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@tps2gc, thank you very much for your information. Mero domestic violence ta chaina ra ma saga yaha pasia pani chaina . Tara mero Kura chai, Mahele yaha USA ma first na divorce file gare pachi , KT le malai yelsle divorce diyo bhanera Nepal ma langlang ta gardina
 
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भाई , तिम्री दुलही नेपाल हो कि US ? दुवै US हो भने यहाँको कानुन आकर्षित हुन्छ , दुलहीको पार्टी आदलत गए नि उतै जा भनेर लात हानेर पठाउछ ।

हैन तिम्री दुलही उता तिमि यता हो भने चै अलि ल्यांग हुन्छ यता को अदालत ले चिठी काट्न physical address खोज्छ अनि प्रोसेस लामो हुन्छ । एस्तो आवस्था मा सबै भन्दा सजिलो उपाय भनेको चै physical distance clause हो, यो clause अन्तर्गत दुलाहा दुलही ६ महिना सम्म संगै छैन भने तिमि ले एक तर्फी divorce file गर्न सक्छौ । ६ मैहिना संगै नबसे पछि जुनै पछ्ये ले नि सजिलै divorce लिन सक्छ । बाल बच्चा छन् भने अलि complicate हुन्छ ।

दुलही नेपाल छिन् भने divorce हान्ने यो स्वोर्निम समय हो , kovid को कारण ले नेपाल को अदालत ले येस्ता साना तिना केस नै हेर्दैन , अझै ५ ६ महिना कम्तिमा येस्तै हुन्छ, तेती बेला सम्म यता काम टाकन टुकन भई सक्छ । येदि छुटेको ६ महिना भएको छैन भने कुर्नु सिबाए अरु विकल्प छैन , नत्र तिम्रो लागि यो गोल्डेन समय हो ।

ब्यतिगत रुपमा चै मिल्नु पर्चा भन्ने मेरो नि जोड हो, अर्की फ्यौरी ल्याए नि फेरी येही समस्या नहोला भनेर कसले भन्न सक्छ , आफुमा केहि समस्या छ भने त्यो सुधार्न तर्फा लग्नु पर्छ, बाकी तिमि आफै विद्वान मैले के भन्नु
 
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यो tps भाई लाई के थाह हून्न । information को त भंडार नै हो यो भाई । बरु आजभोली busy भएर हो की किन हो साझा मा तेति देखिन्न ।
मेरो बिचार मा sabir भाई लाई बूढ़ी ले नेपालको पुर्ख्यौलो संपती माथी पनी दाबी गर्छे की भन्ने डर होला । us मैं बिहे भएको रहेच , मेरो बिचरमा नेपालको संपती मा दाबी लगदैन । घर परिवार धानेर बयबसाय संपती आदि समहलेर बसेको भए अर्कै कुरा ... होईन त tps भाई ?
 
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Tps2gc bro,
येदी केटी ले झेला गरी घरयासी वाययलेन्स को केस हवलदार लाई दर्ता गरीदिएमा के हुंछ।

 
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If your a student here then don’t worry about property, bank acct n money . If either of you have lived in the given state for more than 6 months( few states 3 months) , then the local county have jurisdictions on you guys. You need to hire a lawyer if u don’t wanna deal with the paperwork. File non contested divorce, what is her immigration status? If she is your dependent then what status she be in? You need to withdraw petitions if any, and have to write to USCIS too. If u seriously need help, plz message me here n I can provide u best suggestions. If they threaten you to file case in Nepal it will be dragged forever n more likely she wanting money from you and your family. Try to settle here
 
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हाहा क्रिश्ने भाई मान्छे त म धेरै talent होनी , खाली पढ्न नसकेर अमेरिका आएर नि कुली भइएको छ । अलिकति व्यापार थपियोकि तेसैले यता साझामा आएर हल्ला गर्न पाको छैन ।

ocean भाई, कसैले येतैकै फसाउनको लागि मात्र case दर्ता गर्दैमा केहि हुन्न , केहि न केहि प्रमाण त चाहिन्छ , सानो तिनो प्रमाण ले नि child abuse र डोमेस्टिक violence को दरो case बन्ने रैछ, तेसैले कुनै पनि हालतमा कसै प्रति नि हातपात चै गर्न नहुने रैछ यो देशमा आफ्नै स्वास्नी र केटाकेटी लाई पनि ।

येदि झुट्टा case लागको साबित भयो भने , case लाउने को नि जिन्दगि गयो ।

अस्ति येही साझामा एउटा भाईको case आको थियो नि । बुडा बुडी बीच ठाक ठुक परेछ , बुडी ले आबेस मा आएर ९११ call गरिचिन । अब हाम्रो नेपालमा बुडा बुडी बीच सामान्य ढकाल ढुकुल हुनु स्वाभाविक नै हो । बुडी ले बुड़ो लाई तर्सौना मात्र police बोलाकी रैछन । पुलिस आयो , सामान्य घाऊ खरोच देख्यो , बुड़ो लाई लगेर थुन्यो ।

बुडी लाई लाग्यो उनले case फिर्ता लिए पछि बुड़ो लाई छोड्छ, के खाएर छोड्नु , बुडीले भोलि पल्ट अनुनय बिनाये गर्दा पनि केहि भएन पछि ३० हजार कि कति को bond मा छुट्नु भयो रे । अब धरौटीमा छुट्नु भनेको career मा दाग हो , भोलि अदालत बाट पूर्ण सफाई पाए नि यो दाग १५ वर्ष सम्म रही रहन्छ । पूर्ण सफाई नपाउने चान्स त धेरै छ , अब फेरी तगडा ओकिल राख्नु पर्यो , तेस्को fee कति होला ।

तेसैले येस्ता कुरा मा अलि सचेत बनौ । कसै लाई झुटा मुद्दा नि नलाऊ कसै लाई कुट पिट नगरौ । visa र pr मात्र भाका पछि citizenship लिने सोच भएका ले त झन् एस्तो गल्ति गर्दै नगरम । ,minor लाई चुरोट बेचेको case मा एउटा केटो ले कति दुख पायो भनि साध्ये छैन ।
 
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I agree With TPS2GC. Stay chill, don’t text or tell anything even on phone or social media. If you all been living separated for 6-7 months, see if you can work it out. I know it’s better to fix it than break apart. Once u are divorced in the state, you have to include the ex spouse name in all your immigration files, citizenship forms, passports and so on. Any immigrants who divorced here is always a red flag for officers to dig more, and u know they have binders of binders of data from the day u landed here. Man you gotta remember their date of birth and name all your life. It looks like her family is creating drama. Don’t mess up your immigration status and stay out of any trouble. Sometime gal will blame you torture or physical abuse, file restraining order and make your life hell
O keep all records such as certificates, counseling? And such for future to prove marriage was never sham.
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मेरो एउटा प्रस्न : मैले यहाँ Divorce गरे अनि यहाँ को property सबै आधा गरे - केटि ले नेपाल मा मेरो बुबा को नाम को सम्पति claim गर्न पाउछ ?
 
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divorce एक चोटी हुन्छ, यहाँ divorce भएर case settlement भए पछि अंश दाबी गर्न पैयिन्न। कानुनी राज्य भएको UN ले मान्यता दिएको जुनै राज्यमा गएर divorce गरे पनि यो मान्य हुन्छ र येस्पची कसैले केहि दाबी गर्न पयिन्न। येदि छोरि छोरि छन् अनि उनीहरुको रेखदेख र पलानपोसन मा आर्थिक समस्या आयो भने नैतिक जिम्वाबरी दुवै पति पत्नी ले लिनु पर्ने कानुनी बेवास्था छ , त्यो जीम्बेवारी के हो त्यो arbitration को माध्यम बाट तय हुने भनिएको छ । येस्बहेक कानुनी रुपमा अलग भए पछि कुनै दाबी बिरोद गर्न पाइने छैन ।


 मनोज गजुरेल को divorce  case  को उदाहरण हासो उठ्दो छ । बुडोले जम्मा जम्मी १ करोड २३  लाखमा देवी  बाट छुटकारा पायो । उसले जम्मा जम्मी आफु संग भएको सम्पति ३ करोड १२ लाख देखाको थियो । यसैको आधारमा सम्पति बाड फाड भयो । divorce भएको २ महिना मै गजुरेल को थप सम्पति फेला पर्यो । डाकाको काभ्रेमा मात्र प्रचलित बजार भाउ अनसार २ करोड माथिको जग्गा जमिन रैछ । यो case लिएर भूपू श्रीमती पुनराबेदन गइन । केस final भै सकेको भनेर अदालतले मुद्दा दर्ता नै गरेन । 


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tpsBro

अब धरौटीमा छुट्नु भनेको career मा दाग हो , भोलि अदालत बाट पूर्ण सफाई पाए नि यो दाग १५ वर्ष सम्म रही रहन्छ । पूर्ण सफाई नपाउने चान्स त धेरै छ

interesting po lagyo kuro ta

kasaile jhuto aarop lagayera hawaldar bolayera lagyo nirdosh pachelai. Usle dharautima chutnu ta paryo ni. Dharauti ma nachute 1-2 mahina nirdos bekti karagar ma sadnu parena ta.
charge/case kharej bhaye si ta sabai record hatnu parne haina ra?
Yedi record 15 barsa samma nai rahane ho ta, nirdos pache ta sarai maar ma parne bhayena ra?

 
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if anyone lied about the property than its clearly violations and any settlement done becomes void and can be re claimed again as long u have hard evidence to prove that. Same thing anyone can be proven innocent later even after being convicted of crime.
 
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I am just writing this because, some of the comment here is not correct. It could screw you if not properly planned. I have first hand experience based on exact same situation and messy legal battle in Nepal of family member.

The fact is if you are Nepali citizen and your wife is also Nepali citizen, then you are screwed based on neplease law. She has full right to claim your property in Nepal regardless of what you do. When I say your it's just not directly on your name but also those which you have right based on inheritance. It will going to be long legal battle and it usually ends in settlement, but by law she has right over 50% of your property. She can't claim anything you have here in neplease court but property in Nepal she can claim and she will win legal battle if she has resource and paitence/time to fight for it.

Divorce and property division/claim are generally separate matter. It's lot easier to get divorce here but she can claim property in Nepal, even if you get divorce here. If you try to get divorce in Nepal, they will mix both property dispute and divorce together.

You need to plan this carefully, depending on how much property you have in Nepal. The best option is to come to some aggrement with reasonable number, otherwise no matter what you do, she can claim and will win battle if she has time and desire.

I would recommend to plan carefully not act too quickly on it.


 
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बिहेमा केही दाईजो नमागने नलिने केटा हुन सकछन भने
कसैको सम्पती नली आफ़नै पौरखमा गरी खाँनछु भंने केटी कहाँ छन?
Equality ko kura garnu bekkar nai lagcha




 
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Just wondering! If she had finished divorce process here, on what grounds she will file case in Nepal. She gotta do simultaneously if not what grounds a divorced gal will file case in Nepal- she is already divorced. Divorced in one country is divorced in other country, similarly marriage in one country is marriage is other country. Few years ago it was different, but now it have changed. You know all marriage being done for dependents and all to fly Australia. Nepal’s court must side with decision made by the American court. I’m sure there are lawyers who make money in the fear of losing wealth.
 This I copied form US department website
Based on reciprocity, a judgment of divorce from a state court in the United States generally would be recognized in a foreign country that has a secular legal system. You may wish to consult an attorney in the foreign country to determine if your U.S. divorce decree would be recognized there. Most U.S. embassies and consulates have lists of lawyers on their websites that you may use as a resource to locate a lawyer in that country.
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